Oh, Valentine’s Day. What many women look forward to, most men dread. In Japan, however, it goes the other way. Foreign men who have long suffered through the “vital” ritual on the 14th of February will find that this country offers a welcomed retreat from the pressure. It is the women, here, that buy chocolate as a way to express love and friendship. Traditionally shy, Japanese women are able to confess fluffy feelings today with the help of Godiva. As teachers, expect to receive many a gift from students. Enjoy it while it lasts because, as with all things, the Japanese have a way to return the favor.
The 14th of March: White Day. Exactly one month after Valentine’s Day, men are given a chance to reciprocate warm fuzzies. However, the gifts are different. White Day presents range from cookies and candy to collectable handkerchiefs. It is customary that you provide a gift for any woman/girl that bought you chocolate in February.
Before all the guys get upset about having to spend their St. Patrick’s Day Irish Car Bomb funds on sweets for students and admirers, I’ll remind you that this is Japan. As discussed in my previous post “Harmony,” these people are about the collective. It shouldn’t feel like an obligation or requirement to buys gifts and souvenirs for others. After spending any time here, you’ll feel excited by the chance to return the favor. It feels good to live in a mutually supportive atmosphere in which even the smallest of contributions is greatly appreciated and it’s fun to participate in holidays you don’t fully understand. Everybody likes receiving Valentine’s gifts, why not pay it forward and spread the joy on White Day?
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